Hopeless Romantic to love magnet

Connecting to the best version of you.

The Awakened Self
Rochell Smith

6 Session Intensive 1-1 Coaching

For High Achieving Busy Women that are well-educated and successful in their careers but struggles with finding Mr. Right and is frustrated with attracting Mr. Wrong.

If this is you, continue to read… 

I will help you to go from being a hopeless romantic attracting narcissistic relationships to being a love magnet attracting only the right guys with my step by step strategy.

Do you feel hopeless, alone, and unworthy?

Do you feel like there are NO good men left?

Do you feel like you need to lower your standards in order to attract the right guy?

I get it. I was once there and felt emotionally, physically, and mentally abused, depressed, and stressed. For 10 years, I was in a toxic relationship with a man that was a complete narcissist

I felt trapped. Emotionally drained and alone. I felt as if I couldn’t share how I was feeling and what was happening in the relationship. Most times I felt as if I was walking on eggshells.

But I finally decided to get out of it in 2017 because it was costing me too much. The cost of staying in that relationship, outweighed the benefits.

Now, you don’t want to end up with someone like this!

As women, sometimes we have to put our big panties on and run for our lives because our peace of mind and happiness is what we are fighting for. I got out because for one, it was costing me financially. More than half of the time, I was the one paying for the majority of the bills. And that wasn’t bad at first, but this felt like more than me supporting him. I felt as if I was the man of the house and he wasn’t holding his weight.

My credit went downhill after that.

The financial stress of the relationship, I could handle it, I am a big girl after all- at least that’s what I told myself that I could handle it. I could handle being the breadwinner of the house. I loved him. He was my soulmate, I thought.

Don’t settle for less! This is a huge mistake!

But then the relationship took a spin for the worst and this is when I realized I was with a Narcissist. He became very abusive, mentally, physically, and emotionally. And the worst part is that he had no problem showing his manhood in front of our kids.

He was such a manipulator!

I felt as if I was not good enough. I felt as if I was the problem, I was the reason why he was treating me like this. Something must be wrong with me, I told myself.

At night, I would stay up late thinking to myself “what the hell am I going to do? How did I get in this mess and how am I going to get out? I cannot leave him because we have kids together.”

I didn’t know what I was going to do.

I stopped focusing on me, on what I wanted, and I started thinking about his needs and making him happy because I accepted that is my job as a woman? To make him happy?

I was blaming myself and neglecting my own needs. 

So it cost me financial debt and bad credit (when I had decent credit before I met him). It cost me to have low self-esteem, and feeling worthless because of all of the abuse. It also cost me to not have a social life with friends, family and even meeting new people because of the control he had over me. I lost my power and freedom!

Once I realized that I have control over my life, that’s when I finally took that leap and was able to escape.  

The sad part about my story is that he wasn’t the only guy that I dated that I knew was not the right guy for me.

I kept repeating the same mistake attracting the same type of guys for what felt like an eternity.

Once I left that relationship, I was attracting other narcissistic men and couldn’t figure out why. I had to take a step back and reflect on myself to discover what was going on internally. 

When I realized that it was the story that I was telling myself due to my childhood from growing up around abusive and neglectful parents, I  knew that I needed to recreate a new story.

I had to accept what it was and let go of that old story and those beliefs. This was something that carried on with me in my adult life which had a big effect on my relationships. 

When I changed my story and beliefs, everything else changed in my external reality. 

Please don’t settle for less than what you deserve or you’ll end up in a relationship like this that’ll have you feeling stuck, and powerless.

imagine You Could...

Understand your self-worth, build confidence, raise your self-esteem and standards.
Inside : Hopeless Romantic to Love Magnet

What if I could help you to identify and heal deep beliefs and fears that you probably don’t know that you have, that is keeping you stuck in attracting narcissistic men?

Here’s what You’ll get..

3 Intensive Sessions & 3 Support Sessions

Session 1

Clarity:
We get clear on your values, desires, and what you want in a relationship. We discuss what your obstacles and challenges are that you are currently facing... such as, patterns and traits that you notice similar with each person that you tend to keep attracting.

Session 2

Healing from past trauma: We go deep dive to find the root cause of your fears, doubts & release any repressed emotions using my neutrality shifting method. We will also be working on forgiveness, accountability and any limiting beliefs that's blocking you from attracting love.

Session 3

Strategy : After releasing trauma and repressed emotions, we will recreate your story to begin the path of walking into your new identity. This will allow you to start feeling love within yourself while also letting go of old stories and beliefs that has held you back.

Last 3 Step Process, We Will Work On Maintaining Your New Identity And For Ongoing Support:

Session 4

Progress :
We will work on setting healthy boundaries to ensure you embody the components for self-care. Ongoing support will also be provided.

Session 5

Progress :
We will work on maintaining life balance, as it's important to manage any stress and strains in your life. This allows to prioritize, stay connected and take care of you! Ongoing support is included as needed.

Session 6

Progress:
Any questions, concerns, feedback, or comments are always welcomed. Ongoing support will continue for this last session.

These steps will help to heal your old programming from the subconscious level and past hurts or wounds using my Neutrality Shifting method that gives INSTANT results. When we do this, you will easily identify the stories, beliefs, and fears that are at the root of why you keep attracting the same guys. We will then install new beliefs that support the relationship you want.

The best person to get the results from this process is open to:

  • Energy Healing
  • Ready To Take Action
  • Ready To Give Up Old Habits
  • Ready For A New Identity
  • Ready To Attract Love 

Client Testimonials!

Texas
January 9, 2021
    

Absolutely amazing. Rochell has an amazing gift. She breaks every single one of my thoughts and helps me to think differently in a optimistic way. Thank you

Texas
December 15, 2020
    

I’m absolutely grateful for this opportunity, comes to me at the perfect time considering what I am currently going through . I blessed to have found a person who is willing to put in the time and effort to help get through this hard moment in my life. May God bless us both and allow us to achieve our goals. Thank you Rochell, you make me feel motivated, courageous and supported.

inside Find Freedom Again:

Clarity
Desires, dreams, vision: What are your deepest desires and vision?

Week 2

Mindset
Limiting beliefs: What stories are you telling yourself?
Fears: What are you afraid of?

Week 3

Strategy:
Recreate your story
Self-love/self-care: Focus on yourself

Los Angeles, CA
November 20, 2020
    

I am so thankful for Rochell. She helped me so much, not only my relationship but with myself as well. She has been guiding me to going within and becoming the best version of myself. She always helps me realize that I am worth way more than I allowed in my past relationship.She helps me elevate and pushes me to do my best. Rochell is so genuine and she will make sure that u will have a different outcome after working with her I promise!!!!!THANK YOU SO MUCH Rochell. You are a beautiful soul and will inspire and help so many people in life. I recommend anyone with any relationships problems to contact Rochell to help you along your journey. 

Phillipines
July 10, 2020
    

I just had to reach out and thank you. An hour on the phone with you saved me years of conventional therapy. Rochell truly made an impact in my life. I highly recommend her to anyone who is seeking growth. You will thrive with her not struggle! She is also very knowledgeable. Love working with her!

California
July 11, 2020
    

Rochell is humbled and positive and she encourages me to be like that in my relationship. Who would have thought, with some guidance from Rochell, there would be such an impact.

The investment for this is in the LOW 4 figures. This is very small compared to..

  • Therapy Work That Don’t Work
  • Journaling & Meditation
  • Talking To Family & Friends
  • Personal Development
  • Watching Several Videos Everyday
  • Using Affirmations
  • Have Hired A Dating & Mindset Coach
  • Pray Everyday
Many women have complained having tried these different services and methods without seeing much changes in their love life, and the emotional, financial & physical effect your failed relationships have been costing you.
 

However, although some of these techniques and methods can work, without finding the root cause of the cycle FIRST and shifting those old deep rooted beliefs, it’s not likely that these will work ALONE in the long run!!

 

THIS IS YOUR DEFINING MOMENT.

The decision is now.